Supposedly I have post this an hour ago but it seems this website has lost what I've written. That's why I should write it again. Anyway, I last presented this talk in my youth Light of the Youth Community (LYC). Many have changed because of this. That's why I have decided to write it here in my page. Since tomorrow will be Valentine's day. I want to share what I have discovered and studied about finding your true love. I have set and given at least 15 Basis and criteria in finding your true love.
Before starting I want this to dedicate to all the people who would celebrate there Valentine's day tomorrow. Either you are single, married in a relationship. What I'm about to share to you would be a good basis in finding your true lover, and it will also help you to become a true lover. Single or not I hope you enjoy what I have written.
1. A true lover is patient
Patient does not have to require time. Being patient is simply letting your partner realize his or her mistake. Letting him or her realize it makes you a good lover. You are willing to let him or her change his or her attitude for the better. If not for your relationship let him or her realize that it's for him or her.
2. A true lover is kind
The kindness I'm saying here is the kindness coming from the heart. Many lovers pretend to be kind. But the truth is that person only pretends to be kind so you can love him or her more. To know him or her better. You can see it by the way he or she acts towards others. You can notice it with her family. If he or she do things according to his or her parents will. He or she is truly a kind person. He or she is also willing to offer a hand to other without asking something in return.
3. A true lover is not envy
He or she is confident the way he or she is. He or she may become envy or jealous but it won't affect your relationship. He or she cherish your relationship that's why he or she is willing to avoid being envy and built trust for you.
4. A true lover does not boast
Pride has no room for him or her. Humility will always be felt from him or her. He or she is willing to lower his or her pride for you especially in a fight. He or she is willing to understand you first before making a decision.
5. A true lover is not rude
A true lover knows exactly how to respect you. He or she won't let you do things that you didn't want. He or she will never humiliate you in front of everybody. He or she cherish you a lot. He or she does not want to see you in pain instead he or she is willing to comfort you.
6. A true lover does not insist doing things for its own way
Both your decision matters. He or she won't make decisions without asking you. He or she makes decisions that will make your relationship better.
7. A true lover is not irritating
A true lover wants to make you feel comforted. He or she does not want to hurt, irritate, envy and make you angry. Doing such things makes him or her stupid. He or she wants you to feel being loved.
8. A true lover will not push you to do wrongdoings
A true lover wants you to become a better person. Having the right path. He or she won't lead you to do something that will only lead you to self destruction. Instead he or she will help you to become a self actualized person.
9. A true lover is honest
He or she loves truth. He or she is willing to be honest with you all the time. Even things went worst he or she will remain honest. He or she cherish your trust to him or her.
10. A true lover does not give up
He or she is willing to fight for you. He or she will not give up on you no matter what. If things went wrong he or she would like to make it better by not giving up.
11. A true lover does not lose faith
He or she trust you so much. Your trust is very important to him or her. He or she is not easily tempted to have third parties.
12. A true lover is hopeful
Your love for each other is very important. He or she is very hopeful when things went wrong and is willing to change everything for your relationship.
13. A true lover is ready to endure any circumstances
He or she is willing to fight for you no matter what. He or she believes that your the most beautiful and wonderful person he or she ever met. He or she is ready to endure anything just to be with you.
14. A true lover believes that your love will last forever
A true lover believes that your the person for him or her. He or she is willing to be with you for the rest of the time. He or she is also willing to love you forever. He or she believes and hopes that your love will lasts forever.
15. A true lover knows God
God is love. He or she knows God and he or she loves Him. He believes that God should be the center and the foundation of your relationship so you can be together. He or she believes that your the person sent by Him to be with him or her. He or she experiences God's love that's why he or she is willing to let you feel it too. He fears God so he or she won't hurt you.
These are the 15 basis in finding your true love. In a relationship, or single this is very adaptable for everyone. For I get it from the source of love Himself, God. It was written in the Bible 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. A person who feels God's love could also love others perfectly because they can feel the real meaning of true love. I hope this can help you find your true love and helps you become a true lover. Happy Valentines and God bless!
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